Hello, I'm Becky
I didn't arrive at this work in a straight line. I trained first as a dancer, then spent ten years teaching yoga in London, before finding my way into sex and relationship therapy. The body has been the thread through all of it - dance, yoga, and now the therapy room: different rooms, same fascination with what we hold and rarely say out loud.
Somewhere in that decade I became fascinated by embodiment and the more sensual, human side of all this - and that curiosity led me, via tantra and a great deal of training, into sex and relationship therapy. The thread was always the same: helping people feel at home in their bodies and honest in their relationships.
These days I have thousands of client hours behind me - but what I hope you feel most is that this is a safe, warm place to talk. In the room I'm direct, warm, and genuinely unshockable. There's very little I haven't heard, nothing you could say that would faze me, and there's often more laughter than people expect, even around the things that feel hardest to say. Getting shame out of the room is the whole job.
Alongside my own practice, I founded Connection Clinic, a specialist sex and relationship therapy platform - because I wanted more people to be able to find this kind of support, with a therapist who's right for them.
A couple of things that shape how I work: I have ADHD myself, so I understand neurodivergent minds from the inside rather than just the textbook. And as a parent, I know first-hand how profoundly intimacy and identity can shift after having children - which is part of why that work matters so much to me.
I believe good therapy rests on training that never really stops - so if you like to know exactly who you're trusting with all this, here's where I've worked and everything I've trained in.
Experience
I've gained experience as a psychosexual, psychotherapy and relationship therapist across NHS and private settings in the UK, including:
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Homerton University Hospital
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Talk Wandsworth (NHS)
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Woodbridge Therapy
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Sextherapy Herts
My core qualifications
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Diploma in Sex and Relationship Therapy - CICS (COSRT-accredited)
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Diploma in Contemporary Psychotherapy - Beeleaf (UKCP-accredited)
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EMDR Practitioner - trained with Prof. Paul W. Miller and Adam Getty, Mirabilis Health Institute
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Externship in Emotionally Focused Therapy for LGBTQIA+ couples - Sandra Taylor & Robert Allan
(alongside certificates in Trauma & Triggers, Ethical Practice, Skills & Principles of Contemporary Psychotherapy, NLP, Psychopathology in Psychotherapeutic Practice, and Human Development & Sexuality - all with Beeleaf)
My full CPD training
I take continuing professional development seriously - here's the detail, for anyone who likes to see it.
EMDR
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Sexology, sexual abuse and sexual violence: beyond trauma treatment into an optimum sex life - EMDR UK, Silva Neeves
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Integrating sexual health into EMDR therapy - EMDR UK, Stephanie Baird
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Pranayama breathwork: techniques for emotional and physiological regulation - EMDR UK, Jasminder Bahia
Psychosexual therapy
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Physical causes of dyspareunia and vulvodynia, and the impact on sex and relationships - COSRT
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Solutions for female orgasm problems - COSRT, Dr Laurie Mintz
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Working with common erectile and ejaculation problems - COSRT, Trudy Hannington & Andrew Yates
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Working with couples and compulsive sexual behaviour disorder - COSRT, Paula Hall & Nick Turner
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Kink-affirming psychosexual and relationship therapy practices - COSRT, Markie Twist
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The science of sexual fantasy - COSRT, Dr Justin Lehmiller
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Neurodiversity and psychosexual therapy - COSRT, Karen Lean & Grace Myhill
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The impact of diabetes on sexual function - COSRT, Prof. Geoffrey Hackett
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Working with clients with physical limitations - COSRT, Michelle Donald
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Focus on disabled people in psychosexual and relationship therapy - COSRT, Alex Cowan
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Disability awareness - COSRT, Jennie Williams
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Focus on female infertility - COSRT, Louise Magee
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Digisexuality, out-of-control digibehaviours and digiattachment - COSRT, Dr Markie Twist
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Child sexual abuse: the body keeps the score (Pesso Boyden framework for trauma-informed healing) - Juliet Grayson
Relationship therapy
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Modern dating and commitment: insights for psychosexual and relationship therapists - COSRT
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Autism and relationships - COSRT, Dr Felicity Sedgewick
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ADHD, sexuality and relationships - COSRT, Dr Ned Hallowell
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Neurodiversity and dating - COSRT, Jodi Rogers
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The science of love - COSRT, Dr Anna Machin
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Dementia, sex and intimacy in psychosexual and relationship therapy - COSRT, Danuta Lipinska
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Maintaining intimate connection at the end of life - COSRT, Ruth Hazelton
Psychotherapy
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Working with shame - NCIP, Sue Parker Hall
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Trauma and the living body - NCIP, Claire Spiller
Embodiment
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Certificate of Mastery, Urban Tantra - Barbara Carrellas
Registered, insured and checked
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Public liability insured
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DBS checked
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ICO registered
If any of this resonates -
or you're just curious whether we'd be a good fit -
I'd love to hear from you.